Letter to the woman who will fall in love with my husband

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If one day you fall in love with my husband, without looking for it, without intending it, but in the most classic way of love, which just happens to you, then know that I will understand you. I too, for everything I saw in him, fell in love with him years ago.

If one day you will fall in love with my husband and inside you will arise jealousy and a sense of injustice, why he met me before you, then I will understand you, because you know, I also feel the same about why he met you after me knew, loved, lived me.

If one day you will fall in love with my husband and you will cry every day for the great tragedy of your life, that of loving a married man, then just stop and think; is not my tragedy greater than yours?

If one day my husband will fall in love with you, for my anger and for our love that took different forms over the years, know that you are a moment. You are the stimulus that a heart needs to give a little impulse to an organism that often works tired. But you know, you will never be his organism.

You who will one day fall in love with my husband, know that today, I will say it as a woman to a woman, that he will never be truly yours because a man with Albanian blood can live a thousand lives in hypocrisy, than a single one true.

This will be your real tragedy. So as a woman to a woman I say; It deserves more than my husband, ours, and others. Because the moment you think you have it, you really take it from his wife, but you never do it to yours. Leave it at that. Alone. Neither with the wife nor with you.

If one day my husband falls in love with you, simply because love happens, not out of spite, nor out of incentive, and decides to truly live the only life he has, then be the happiest in this world!

I will never be an obstacle to my husband’s happiness. Not even yours.”
Neda Balluku